(12-27-2017, 08:22 AM)rpmaluki Wrote: In the end he chose his family and would have stuck by that decision if his ghost mother and aunt never paid him a visit, grimming seemed to take a back seat to having Adalind, Diana, his son and his friends back. This isn't the same Nick that placed his relationship at the far end of the spectrum over his Grimm.
(12-27-2017, 08:15 AM)irukandji Wrote: I don't see where Nick desired marriage all that greatly. I recall him talking about it with Hank, but during the same conversation, greatly expressed the desire to be a grimm. Because he placed marriage and children at the opposite end from being a grimm in his immediate world, I believe he considered that if he accepted one way of life, the other was out of the question.Unfortunately what you believe isn't substantiated by the script/or show. It's an opinion I'm okay to dismiss as nothing more than that. You believe what you want, I'll stick to the show.
Nick did not take Adalind in in some kind of attempt to have a family. He took her in to protect her and her son. Nick had no sayso with regard to Kelly. It was Adalind who confided in him that he was about to become a father. I believe his choice would have been not to have children at all.
But that aside, okay, he eventually accepted Kelly and Adalind as family. I still don't see how that suddenly equates to marriage. I believe Nick was wise in not marrying Adalind. While Kelly and Adalind are his family, tying Adalind to him in marriage would never have been a good decision. Adalind should be free to leave at any time, should she wish.
You can certainly believe as you wish, but I don't see anything in your posts to substantiate that marriage was on the forefront of Nick's mind during the entire series. The topic of marriage rarely came up between Juliette and Nick in the time they were together. I never saw it coming up at all between Nick and Adalind.
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