02-02-2017, 09:10 AM
(02-01-2017, 05:22 PM)Kathryn Wooten Wrote:(02-01-2017, 05:16 PM)Nicholas White Wrote:(02-01-2017, 07:45 AM)irukandji Wrote:(02-01-2017, 07:29 AM)Nicholas White Wrote: I don't think Adalind has put her kids second to Nick. She left Nick and joined BC to protect Diana and Kelly. Then she moved back to the loft to give Kelly the chance to see his Father which is Nick. Diana can still see her father, Renard. She hasn't taken the ring off in fear of it hurting her kids. She already showed that if it came down to being with Nick or protecting her children she would choose the latter.
As far as Nick and Diana they have barely been around each other. There hasn't been a moment for them to really bond.
I think the issue was that Adalind left Renard too soon to go to Nick. She didn't really give Diana enough time to adjust to her before leaving. She was so desperate to be with Nick she forgot to ask her own daughter about how she felt regarding the move.
She didn't ask Kelly either when she went with Renard. She don't need to ask her kids given Diana will still see her father just as much if not more.
Everything can't just be about what Diana wants or that would get extremely messy.
Kelly can even say his first words...how can Adalind get Kelly's approval?? Diana had some right where o what parent she wanted to be with , she was given no choice..but if Diana really wanted to be with daddy, there would be nothing Adalind could do
Just because Kelly can't say something doesn't mean one doesn't take what is right for him into consideration. Just because Diana says "Hey I want to live with Daddy" you don't let her. As a parent you make the decision. The decision Adalind made was the right one for the situation. Renard can't watch Diana with his Job, which is super demanding. He would have to hire a nanny. Thus Diana staying with Adalind makes sense considering she can take her kids to work with her, Renard can't.
(02-01-2017, 05:33 PM)irukandji Wrote:Diana has only been out of Adalind and Renards life for like 1 year. Adalind got Pregnant with Kelly a couple of weeks after Diana was taken. Diana growth spourt makes it seem way longer than what it is.(02-01-2017, 05:16 PM)Nicholas White Wrote:(02-01-2017, 07:45 AM)irukandji Wrote:(02-01-2017, 07:29 AM)Nicholas White Wrote: I don't think Adalind has put her kids second to Nick. She left Nick and joined BC to protect Diana and Kelly. Then she moved back to the loft to give Kelly the chance to see his Father which is Nick. Diana can still see her father, Renard. She hasn't taken the ring off in fear of it hurting her kids. She already showed that if it came down to being with Nick or protecting her children she would choose the latter.
As far as Nick and Diana they have barely been around each other. There hasn't been a moment for them to really bond.
I think the issue was that Adalind left Renard too soon to go to Nick. She didn't really give Diana enough time to adjust to her before leaving. She was so desperate to be with Nick she forgot to ask her own daughter about how she felt regarding the move.
She didn't ask Kelly either when she went with Renard. She don't need to ask her kids given Diana will still see her father just as much if not more.
Everything can't just be about what Diana wants or that would get extremely messy.
I don't recall saying she had to ask Diana if she could leave to be with Nick. I don't think a month/month and a half is enough for a child who's been missing out of her life for three years, do you?
As far as Sharing. Diana would barely see Renard even if Adalind stayed given Renards job which is slightly demanding. By time he gets off Diana would be going to sleep and by time he went in Diana probably wouldn't even be woke.
This way Diana gets to spend uninterrupted time with Renard. Also Renard doesn't have to walk on eggshells because Adalind won't be there to twist his words. I actually feel like this is a way better arrangement.