09-25-2014, 10:27 PM
@Christian Killian: Welcome to the forum!
hmmm...
Did Nick get raped? He didn't know what he was doing, but nobody used force, got hurt or even in a bad mood.
Let me construct a "male scenario" for you.
Let's say you have a twin brother, you really hate him because he's a really bad character and you haven't spoken for years. Now you have a girlfriend and you didn't tell her about your brother. But he's spying on you. One day he comes to your place and sleeps with your girlfriend. And hour later, you come home and find out.
Let's ignore what you would do to your brother now.
What about your relationship? She's done nothing wrong. You wouldn't blame her for not noticing there was something wrong? You wouldn't ask yourself if he was perhaps better than you? You could go on sleeping with her in the same bed without these thoughts?
hmmm...
Did Nick get raped? He didn't know what he was doing, but nobody used force, got hurt or even in a bad mood.
Let me construct a "male scenario" for you.
Let's say you have a twin brother, you really hate him because he's a really bad character and you haven't spoken for years. Now you have a girlfriend and you didn't tell her about your brother. But he's spying on you. One day he comes to your place and sleeps with your girlfriend. And hour later, you come home and find out.
Let's ignore what you would do to your brother now.
What about your relationship? She's done nothing wrong. You wouldn't blame her for not noticing there was something wrong? You wouldn't ask yourself if he was perhaps better than you? You could go on sleeping with her in the same bed without these thoughts?