I don't know what it was about Ruth, but I never saw the connection between her and Kirk. I didn't think she was too old for the dress, I thought she was too old, period.
Carol Marcus is a good guess for the little blonde lab technician. Whoever it was, it's easy to think that Kirk almost married this technician because she was pregnant. This was the 60s and I'm thinking making an honest woman of her was still a big thing back then. However, I have a feeling that would not have been the reason with Marcus. I don't know what the joke on Kirk was supposed to be, but with Carol Marcus, my thought is that she would be a woman who would use Kirk to get pregnant, then have nothing to do with him. In her mind, being an honest woman had nothing to do with pregnancy and marriage.
Carol Marcus is a good guess for the little blonde lab technician. Whoever it was, it's easy to think that Kirk almost married this technician because she was pregnant. This was the 60s and I'm thinking making an honest woman of her was still a big thing back then. However, I have a feeling that would not have been the reason with Marcus. I don't know what the joke on Kirk was supposed to be, but with Carol Marcus, my thought is that she would be a woman who would use Kirk to get pregnant, then have nothing to do with him. In her mind, being an honest woman had nothing to do with pregnancy and marriage.
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