09-19-2017, 08:36 AM
(09-19-2017, 06:58 AM)Hexenadler Wrote:Adalind may have been a freak in bed but that persona, we've seen that it was missing from the moment they hooked up. You are making the assumption that because she was one before that somehow meant Nick behaved like one in bed when he was with her. We know that he didn't because she didn't. Nick is a almost strictly conservative character sexually. He is capable of being very passionate but within certain established boundaries of his personality. He's not a monk but he's not a freak willing to do all kinds of weird sexual kink out of nowhere.(09-19-2017, 06:38 AM)rpmaluki Wrote: But Nick doesn't treat his personal relationships like he treats criminal wesen. That's two very distinct and very different things. The fact that he longed for family at the beginning of the show and worked to hold on to it at the end of the show shows that in this area he's very rigid and reserved but he's no longer the straight laced cop wanting to do things by the book at the end of the show like we saw him at the very beginning. He "Grimms" out more times now than he acts as a cop and the difference is glaring. Human nature is unpredictable I give you that but Nick being into a bit of a sadomasochist relationship is baseless and extremely OOC based on what we have seen of the character in six years, even when he was with Adalind who was a freak in bed (see her Renard couplings), Nick never acted outside this predetermined aspect of his personality.
It's no more baseless than Nick hunkering down with his former rapist and voluntarily "forgetting" everything that transpired between himself and Adalind up to that point. The show's writers were OOC with Nick for years. Greenwalt & Kouf seem very flippant when it comes to the subject of love, and they gleefully wrecked Nick and Juliette's relationship when the fancy struck them, regardless of everything the pair had gone through prior. They could have just as easily done the same with Nick and Adalind had the show continued past S6.
Besides, you just said yourself that he voluntarily slept with Adalind even while she was "a freak in bed." How is that different from the scenario I described between Nick and Juliette? At least their relationship, as disturbing as it might be, would have been far more honest and upfront compared to "Nadalind," which covertly says rape can be a perfectly acceptable building block in a long-term romance. It's morally irresponsible and disgusting. Please stop defending it.
The writers may have gone in directions that some fans feel contradicts the characters, like swapping Juliette for Adalind etc but it was their prerogative as the creators. It's their pen that determines whether or not Nick is a freak in bed or has conservative values around love, family etc. Human nature is unpredictable but Nick sure wasn't. The most outrageous thing he did was fall in love with the mother of his son despite a volatile past.
I can't argue with you about what you wanted to happen as long as it is without relevant evidence spanning 123 worth of episodes on character behavior. I am willing to argue what should have happened based on actual dialogue, actions and scenes from the show to back up a different scenario than what we got in the end.
Nick and Adalind may be jarring to viewers such as yourself I understand that but them getting together wasn't outside of the realm of possibility when you go back to their first and second season interactions, including the very scene that clearly rubs people raw, Adalind's assault on Nick (I'm not even trying to change your view on this btw) but then don't forget the subsequent scene that transformed Juliette into a Hexenbiest, how Nick behaved. Nick has always shown hints of being physically attracted to Adalind whether it's acceptable to you on not. It is what it is.
I'm not defending Adalind's actions on the day Kelly was conceived but I can't ignore what the writers put on the screen either. Adalind is remorseful of her actions towards Nick (and Juliette) I am able to look at the full picture of what happened that day before Monroe and Rosalee's wedding, there were extenuating circumstances that go beyond simply Adalind preying on Nick. It's despicable when looked at out of context but then so is what Nick has done to Adalind over the course of the show. They have done horrible things to each but the attraction was always there regardless. They finally acted on it. Both recognised they crappy past and still pursued a loving relationship with one another.
Presenting the show as it aired is not the same as endorsing everything that went on between the first episode and the last.