(11-19-2016, 12:32 PM)izzy Wrote:(11-19-2016, 10:04 AM)brandon Wrote: Being a good mother does not mean it's boring.And that is now a hexenbiest does not have to become a bad relationship with Nick
I agree. I truly enjoyed those cookie baking moments with Adalind and Nick and Nick and baby Kelly. I am a soft touch that way ( I also am sucker for kittens and puppies).
I think it is easier for males to appreciate scenes like that and a bit harder for strong, independent women to be amused when they see a change in a female character altered so drastically.
But I digress...
(11-19-2016, 12:28 PM)degrimm Wrote: I don't think the relationship btw nick and adalind is boring. It just feels unbelievable cos I don't see that element That makes nick fall in love with her- is it that her is a good mother cos that seem so lame cos u can say that for at least 80 percent of women- I don't see that something special or characteristic that's unique to 2 people meant to b in love with each other.
I am not so sure about that. There is love and then there is love. I can recall the first time I witnessed my woman breast feeding my son (note the intended inflection of possession in my words - yep it's a guy thing). Up until that point (biological understanding aside) that was the first time I truly understood that women had breasts to serve as something other than dangling ornaments put there by god for my amusement. And realizing she was nurturing MY CHILD turned the love I had into a type of bond and love I knew no other women could ever approach. There is something about a woman wanting to have your child and dedicating a large portion of her life to raising your child that can have a profound effect on a man. In my case it made me realize that the love I had found was different now, and nothing ever again could approach the relationship I had with the mother of my child. So I will contend that woman + man's baby can generate a type of affection that a man has never known before.
In fact, if they wanted to end Grimm with Nick still in love with Juliette but also in love with Adelind and ending the series with Nick telling Juliette:
Juliette I'll always love you. But Adalind is the mother of my child. And that is special bond, a special type of relationship that will forever bind us. I love her in a different way, in some ways deeper, in a way that is difficult to express. I can only hope one day you can share that same type of love with a man and experience what I have experienced. Then, I think you will understand. Thank you for all the years we shared Juliette, but it is over between us. Adalind is the mother of my child.
It's like u just wasted 1-2 mins of my time up there in what u wrote telling me nothing but only ur personal life-Sorry, not trying to sound insensitive.
1. Ur first story-the personal one- i can only assume u had a kind of connection for u to sleep with her at first. She maybe connected with u like no other woman(foundation of bond) and she gave birth to ur child and that bond is there already and it becomes stronger as she takes care of ur child with her warm touch and her............(it didn't start when she was taking care of ur baby butbwhen u met her, had the connection from ur outings and slept with her).
unless destroying juliette life, trying to kill marie,almost killing hank and oh ofc the sex nick had with the fake juliette created a bond, then there's nothing there and if there is, I don't want to see it ends cos that bond foundation is so so poor that it's almost nonexistence and I would never build even a house on it cos it would destroy. The sex nick had, he thought she was connecting with juliette so that bond is with juliette and not with adalind and the second time he knew it was juliette in adalind's body and so again that is with juliette. There is usually a bond with the mother of the child but it's just that and it can never take the place of real love for someone u had a raw connection without being forced.
Unless he loved adalind from only that sex and he used up juliette's life, u have no point and he shouldn't have let her make him a grimm again
2. In S01E16 I presume, Juliette said she would so much want to marry him someday and so I can only assume she could not also wait to have his child, more reason she was filled with anger in the hexenbiest suit and also wore that ring in season 4.
3. When I said not boring, I didn't mean it was that interesting either. So when I said unbelievable they must have to come up with something that beats losing memory, getting beaten, ur boyfriend sleeping with another woman, taking a portion that was really dangerous to help him , boyfriends baby mama, losing herself and dying.
4. The only thing he could do is learn to love her cos she's d mother of Kelly and doesn't want kelly without his mother nand maybe juliette letting adalind have nick and juliette leave. The more reason I said why do they need nick to choose btw adalind and juliette