11-23-2015, 06:40 PM
(11-23-2015, 05:32 PM)irukandji Wrote: I'm not against him fighting for his son. I think that's great. It's my hope that he realizes that he can no longer be the corrupt cop now that he has someone who depends on him. I personally would like to see Adalind move into her own digs though, along with having a non romantic relationship with her so that he can visit his son. He owes her nothing in my opinion.
I am going to politely disagree. Children deserve an intact mommy and daddy both living on-prem. I have taught children for over 20 years, and even when the parents have outside relationships, as long as the are cordial to each other and parent together, and maintain the appearance of a mommy and daddy, the children benefit. I have seen it many times and have yet to witness this alleged "the children are better off" when mommy and daddy split. I never have seen it. It devastates the kids. IMNTBMFHO, this divorce is okay or single parent thing is something people tell themselves to justify their actions.
So in short, without regard for something between Nick and Adalind, the created a life together, so they owe that life at least 20 years or so of creating a illusion of an intact family.