(11-19-2016, 05:10 PM)izzy Wrote:(11-19-2016, 01:42 PM)degrimm Wrote: It's like u just wasted 1-2 mins of my time up there in what u wrote telling me nothing but only ur personal life-Sorry, not trying to sound insensitive.
1. Ur first story-the personal one- i can only assume u had a kind of connection for u to sleep with her at first. She maybe connected with u like no other woman(foundation of bond) and she gave birth to ur child and that bond is there already and it becomes stronger as she takes care of ur child with her warm touch and her............(it didn't start when she was taking care of ur baby butbwhen u met her, had the connection from ur outings and slept with her).
To clarify, we were already married and she was is the love of my life. BUT, I already thought I knew the fullness of what a man could feel toward a woman when I proposed; I never imagined the depth of additional feelings that I would develop that only manifested themselves with the addition of our child.
That was my point. Nick may have felt nothing but lust for Adalind,but add their child and blamo, suddenly he sees here in a different light and develop a type of affection he never imagined he could feel.
(11-19-2016, 01:52 PM)irukandji Wrote: They move in together and all of the sudden their pasts suddenly vanish simply because they're playing house now? We are what we are because of our pasts. Lack of a past between Nick and Adalind is not only boring but utterly unbelievable.
One view that I do not think lacks substance is, sex can mask a lot of issues for men for several months. If we are truly only talking 3-9 months then I can believe that sex simply could of masked almost every issue on Nick's ends. On Adalind's side, no way(I get eh impression Nick could clockwise rotate in a circular fashion his way out of a wet paper bag as far as women are concerned) but I still think she was very deliberate in reeling him in.
So given the above and general make proclivities, I can buy it to an extent.
Note, how Adlaind + sex with her, had Nick wondering if he was in love with her the very next day (reference: conversation with Monroe in the car n the way to the airport).
What I am trying to say is there is a solid foundation with u with/without marriage, on which those new affections appear or evolves into a whole new aspect, it just does not appear via sex or sex alone;
With nick and adalind, the only thing i could see that connects them together is both of them likes sex even when they were with different partners, a lame situation where nick asked her something abt wesen and she gave only few detaild and said she was smart which is contrary to what we 've seen of her and a baby;
That is why I saw unless he likes her lustful sex then there is noconnection; for me and maybe other people, they might want to pride their connection on something other than sex- sex is an added bonus and if it's great then the 2 are perfect; Sean has a child too, y don't u attribute that theory to their situation or must he wait until he sees her taking care of her which Ofc he's seen or wait for her to start breastfeeding.
Adalind can say whatever she likes abt making it abt them but there is no solid foundation. They said in season 6 she was gonna use her knowledge of potions in the spice shop and so they want to expand it there but still really makes it almost nonexistence.
Nick ought to question whether he loves adalind cos if he does/does not he has to do something abt it and no him then juliette was not coming back;
And the more reason why I doubt if he ever loved juliette and was just dragging her along and also doubted if he ever truly hated Ads kind but secretly liked her cos he didn't kill her in the honeybees episode S01E03 even with the danger they warned him of, and everything she's done to juliette.
If adalind had killed aunt Marie personally and with the royals caught kelly and also had nicks baby with juliette dying, I don't think events of season 5 will change
I know that If nick and adalind were to end up together all we would have @ d end of S06 is they were 2 sworn enemies and they live happily ever after (lmao),which would negate the whole GRIMM name.