(04-23-2018, 12:39 PM)dicappatore Wrote: Here is how you insult others. In this case me, by putting words in my mouth or on my fingers typing these posts. I never asked you to butt in, Please re-read my post. However, I did ask you on how you expect your son to react to a similar situation. Your answer for him to be able to make his own decisions do not answer the question on how you expected him to react, behave.
Both my kids are grown and one is married. At this point I have done as good as a job as i could have and I hope I have given them a foundation set of values to direct them for the rest of their lives. If my son was in similar situation, I wouldn't dare to butt in, advise, if he asked for it, as he does on various matters. I would expect him to stand up for himself and write off someone in his life, similar in behavior, to Juliette.
Juliette made it specifically clear, she was done with Nick. Why are you expecting for him to take her side and not the side of his unborn child? if your son was in a similar situation, I am not asking for you to force or influence his decision in any way. My question still stands. What would you EXPECT him to do. Take the side of a woman that walked out of his life, laughed at his face and stopped communicating with him, at this point, for about a month, or more. Whom would you expect your son to favor, Adalind or Juliette.
Maybe in the real world we don't have girlfriends turning into Hexenbiests. I am sure there are relationships that have broken up yet continue to be in each other's lives.
And let me refresh your so called desire to have a mature conversation with this little tidbit:
Quote:Are you capable of being objectively at all, as a mother?
Um, I don't get the feeling you meant that as a compliment and since you don't generally converse maturely, then the only thing left is an insult. So please don't act like you're trying to be so mature when you open a post with a question like the above.
What difference does it make to Nick what Kelly expects? She wasn't around for over half of his life as it was. It's not her business and her expectations are a big fat zero where Nick is concerned.
Quote:Juliette made it specifically clear, she was done with Nick.
I know she made it clear she was done with Nick. But when does that suddenly account for hatred? Some couples have a little more going for them then just sex.
And since you're so keen on canon, I wonder why it is that you don't bring up Adalind's statement to Kenneth that Juliette would never betray Nick. For that matter, I wonder why you don't bring up Kenneth telling Juliette that she was loyal to "the Grimm even after what he'd done to her". I also wonder why you don't bring up that Juliette didn't argue with Kenneth and insist that loyalty to Nick was the furthest thing from her mind.
I know you'll never understand this, but it makes no sense that Nick wouldn't choose Juliette over Adalind during that scene. If, as you imply, Nick was trying to get Juliette back by patching things up, why all of the sudden throw all that in the garbage because Adalind comes waddling in to the precinct, claiming she's carrying his son?
All Juliette did at that point was walk out on Nick and sleep with Sean. That is something she's perfectly entitled to do. After all, Nick made it plain that he wasn't going to sleep with her and his "I love you" to her was less than heartfelt.
According to you, Nick was willing to forgive all of that because he was trying and trying and trying and trying to patch things up and get her back. She was there in the precinct. He could have easily patched things up. Yet he chose Adalind who'd done nothing but hurt him and those he loved.
I expect him to take Juliette's side because as so many here are so apt to point out, he loved Juliette and supposedly would go to hell and back for her, even if she laughed at him. I expect him to take Juliette's side because she was willing to become the final ingredient in the spell to give him back his grimm, despite side effects. I expect him to take Juliette's side because he always had her to come home to. I expect him to be there to help her. She didn't ask to become a hexenbiest and paid dearly for it.
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