Why Meisner and Adalind would never happen in real life.
Here is how this would work if the show mimicked reality in terms of relationships.
Meisner’s perspective:
He meets a woman she is pregnant with another guys baby out of wedlock, well that happens at least she did not have an abortion. You deliver the baby, you protect her, the chemistry between you is so strong, the attraction is there…she is beautiful and smart. You desire her.
You meet her again a year or so later, wow she looks good, the chemistry is still there…but what the furry kittens – she has yet another baby from yet another father, and yet again from a guy she had no relationship with? What the kittens is that about? Is she just stupid? Doesn't she know where babies come from? What a stupid whore - and with that passes any chance for a relationship with the guy.
Guys can do the instant family thing, if the woman at least had a relationship she thought was going to last with the guy she got knocked up by before you met her, at least then she isn’t a total whore, but a guy she hardly knows after she meets you: now you entered slut-land. Moreover it is ghetto behavior. Meisner does not appear to be ghetto. I just cannot imagine any circumstance where any guy would sign up for this. Now Meisner may nail Adalind, after all that is what whores are for, but beyond that, no way.
On the show, to the best of my knowledge at this point in time Meisner does not know Adalind has another baby. It would be interesting and realistic if he turned a cold shoulder to Adalind when he finds out and we could all see the crushed look on her face when the reality hits her.
So in that spirit, I created a male only poll. The question I ask, is if you were Meisner is there any way you would get in a relationship with Adalind knowing she has had two babies by two different guys she never so much as dated out of wedlock and one of them after she met you?
Here is how this would work if the show mimicked reality in terms of relationships.
Meisner’s perspective:
He meets a woman she is pregnant with another guys baby out of wedlock, well that happens at least she did not have an abortion. You deliver the baby, you protect her, the chemistry between you is so strong, the attraction is there…she is beautiful and smart. You desire her.
You meet her again a year or so later, wow she looks good, the chemistry is still there…but what the furry kittens – she has yet another baby from yet another father, and yet again from a guy she had no relationship with? What the kittens is that about? Is she just stupid? Doesn't she know where babies come from? What a stupid whore - and with that passes any chance for a relationship with the guy.
Guys can do the instant family thing, if the woman at least had a relationship she thought was going to last with the guy she got knocked up by before you met her, at least then she isn’t a total whore, but a guy she hardly knows after she meets you: now you entered slut-land. Moreover it is ghetto behavior. Meisner does not appear to be ghetto. I just cannot imagine any circumstance where any guy would sign up for this. Now Meisner may nail Adalind, after all that is what whores are for, but beyond that, no way.
On the show, to the best of my knowledge at this point in time Meisner does not know Adalind has another baby. It would be interesting and realistic if he turned a cold shoulder to Adalind when he finds out and we could all see the crushed look on her face when the reality hits her.
So in that spirit, I created a male only poll. The question I ask, is if you were Meisner is there any way you would get in a relationship with Adalind knowing she has had two babies by two different guys she never so much as dated out of wedlock and one of them after she met you?